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Rising Above Ourselves

I was inspired again by my mentor this week as he offered a quote by Sir Edmund Hilliary who said “It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.”

I end a three year ministry this week wherein I had the opportunity to be a mentor/guide/counselor to about 300 young adults between ages 19-31.  For Ginger and I, this has been an opportunity of a life time.  To be with the “kids” who will shape the tomorrows of the world is enlivening and empowering!  Often in my counseling with them, the thing that had to be overcome to progress and move forward was themselves.  Isn’t that true with all of us?

Recently I gave a keynote address to an industry conference.  We (my admins and I) put many hours over several months into this presentation.  I believe it was well received, but my focus to gage this was based on the immediate response, not how the principles taught might have a lasting impact on members of the audience.  In other words, I was focusing the results on how I did, rather than how the audience would eventually, perhaps, inculcate the teachings.


My observation is this: while we want to be well received, liked, perhaps even admired, it’s not about US.  It’s about how we change the world for the better by the way we live.  What is it that we conquer that enables the best results?  I would list the following:

  1.  Selfishness
  2. Addictions
  3. Habits and Values

I had a young lady confide that she felt left out in social gatherings, that she seemed invisible at times.  I said “Join the club—we have special powers, those of us who can stand in a group and be invisible.”  But then I explained that I have always found that when I reach out to others the results are always positive, even though it may not seem reciprocal.  Selfishness is when we are more concerned about ourselves than others.

Addictions are a bi-product of several things, including idle time, poor choices of friends, and succumbing to self-gratification rather than rising above our own interests for the good of others and the world we live in.  It is akin to selfishness.  Breaking the strangling tentacles of addiction requires changing habits and often time values.

When we decide to “Conquer” ourselves, we typically will ourselves to adopt higher standards or values for living.  This requires a change of heart and behavior, not just a cease and desist order from the brain.  These behaviors are effectively changed when we discover that no one succeeds alone.  We adopt mentors, we confide in friends or counselors or even programs, to gain the higher ground, one step at a time.

In our journey, let’s remember the words of Sir Edmund Hilliary who said “It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.”

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Posted by on May 22, 2013 in Uncategorized



In our leadership teachings, we introduced a sequence of success.  Some things follow a proper order; though as we all know, there are always exceptions.


The process is not deep and intellectually challenging—-in fact, it’s simplicity is most of it’s power—-which baffles some.


Here it is:  THINK, PLAN, DO.  Ponder this while I briefly explain.



Successful plans need to be incubated.  My son-in-law(Andrew) took this literally.  He and my daughter and cute young grandson are fashioning a plan to be sustainable farmers.  They are incubating this plan as they save their money toward a purchase—-in our basement.  We are happy to assist.  What I didn’t know when this started, is that we would have six chickens and twenty one quail in the basement also.  The quail were carefully incubated.  I might have seen this coming had I put two and two together.   Andrew built a beautiful mobile chicken coop in our garage a month or so prior—-which displaced my wife’s car during construction .  Did I mention we love helping?  There is more!


Our HOA has a policy against chickens/chicken coops.  Our city does not.  My wife is the HOA president—-and deals with “HOA career people neighbors” who make neighborhood patrol their occupation.  She came home from the last board meeting where Andrew “floated the chicken plan” and said something like “go for it”—- I said it was “something” like that …..(it could have been our interpretation onlyJ, and we didn’t seek clarification).  It was determined that before the HOA would get around to hauling our little chicken butts into HOA court, the little birds would have been fully grown and tested in the new mobile coop etc..  I hope our interpretation doesn’t get our HOA President into trouble!  Sometimes even the “Thinking” aspect of this formula requires risk.


BTW, to show my HOA appreciation,  I’ve ordered a life-size fake cow for our front yard—-but I digress.


Thinking is akin to incubation.  These quail running around our basement didn’t just appear.  They were carefully placed on egg holders that moved periodically; were kept at a perfect temperature, and then one early morning, the eggs cracked and out came little fuzzy creatures. 




The research that has gone into our little neighborhood farm is amazing .  Andrew is a lot like Leonardo Da Vinci—-taking meticulous notes–preparing for the best possible results.  twenty two quail hatched from 30 eggs, and 21 survived.  For any quail hatchers out there, you know this is a record feat!


The chicken coop the birds will graduate to in a week or so is not just another coop.  In fact, we are patenting it—–that’s what happens with GREAT planning—-the world is changed for the better—in this case the chickens will live a life of happiness—-until that fateful day.  Seriously, a big part of sustainable farming is to be a good steward of the earth and its creatures—-this is all incorporated in his plan.  Which leads us to DO.



While I was still reeling (with curious excitement) from the covey of quail and peep of chickens in our basement, Andrew constructed a green house in our yard.  He put a camouflage electric netting fence around this and the garden area—I’m not worried about the HOA on this one because they can’t see it!  he also ordered bees— which were placed in his hive last week.  Andrews good wife got him a hive for Christmas!  I didn’t think it would be launched in our back yard—but having watched the BEE MOVIE,  I know that bees are our friends—-so what the heck.


The massive winter spring snow you see in these pictures was NOT planned for; but because the THINK part of the plan was so meticulous, the Bee’s survived, the greenhouse withstood the pressures of the snow, and the birds were delayed their new home, but thrived none-the-less.



The greenhouse, though now constructed, needs preparation for these starts to be transferred—-FROM OUR DINING ROOM—-did I mention that we are supportive of Andrew’s plan?  Seriously, we love it, because he is following this simple formula for success.


Let’s summarize.


The DO part of the plan is nothing without the thinking and the plan itself.  The PLAN is nothing if not well thought out.  The DO is the faith to move forward, even with risk and sometimes, in the face of unexpected challenges.


I don’t know what my son-in-law is going to think of next.  We may have to move if the HOA gets wind of the sheep he has surely ordered, or that Scottish Highland cow he’s been talking about.  Someday, I envision them living near the city, living out the dream they thought up, planned and implemented in our garage and basement, and making their mark.  Dreams are brought to reality through this very simple yet powerful process.


Now I have a giant plastic cow arriving soon—I am now entering the planning stage of this adventure. I’m teaching my grandson how to moo!  Soon we will enter Do!!

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Posted by on May 2, 2013 in Uncategorized